We Say: Healing is Real

As much as anything else, healing is real. I’m not “sold” on the reality of just about anything, but if anything is real, healing is real. If anything truly ever happens to us that is terrible, painful, hateful, self-hating, ugly, excruciating–healing happens. If healing is as real as anything else, we can decide to claim […]

No-Regrets Healing

It’s easy to decide to take on healing to make someone else happy. If someone we love is unhappy with us, many of us will decide we want to get back in their good graces by working on ourselves. I’ve done this and I’ve had people do it toward me. Whether or not it works, […]